One of the cornerstones of a happy marriage is respect. Setting reasonable marriage limits is one approach to show the respect we all need and deserve in our relationships. Marriage boundaries may be perceived by some as something that would separate you from your spouse, but when used appropriately, they may really bring you closer.
There are no perfect people or relationships.
Although we all have shortcomings, it is extremely insulting to discuss your spouse’s weaknesses with your family and friends. Keep your partner’s faults a secret. The first person you should speak to if you feel that your marriage is suffering is your spouse. Sit down and have an honest discussion about the problem. In the event that you cannot work the issue out together, you may need to seek out the help of wise counsel.
On a similar note, keep your marriage problems private. Sharing your issues with family or close friends might polarize the matter because they are frequently the ones who are too close to you to be impartial. Use the issues in your relationship to make your marriage stronger. Sometimes all it takes to obtain the outside viewpoint you want is to read a good book on the subject, especially if you both read it together (here is a list of some suggested reading: www.amazon.com/shop/relentlessmarriage). A marriage intensive may be a great option for you if this is a consistent area of tension.
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